Soul Anchors

Living Authentically

August 1, 2023

Dear Ministry Partner,

With advancement in information technology and artificial intelligence, it has become increasingly difficult to distinguish between fake news or products and the real deal these days. We are warned about these elaborate schemes that seek to deceive us into believing in something false.

As Christians, do we sometimes put up a false front? This can happen when we, in our weakness, inflate our self-importance to impress others or we lead a double life to hide our true self and identity. The gap between our true self and public persona can deceive others and ourselves.

Paul reminds us in Galatians 6:3, “If anyone thinks they are something when they are not, they deceive themselves.” The means of deception can sometimes be so subtle that we may even feel that there is no problem with it. For example, we could:

  • Make our job or job title sound more important
  • Embellish our accomplishments, by just a little bit
  • Over-promise on our ability to deliver
  • Present an all-is-well image while struggling with a situation
  • Actively serving in church while being detached and absent at home
  • Go with the flow even when it is contradictory to our Christian values
  • Think ourselves more righteous than others (Luke 6:41)

While we may succeed in impressing others with any of the above actions, such conduct will not glorify God and may end up stumbling our fellow brothers and sisters-in-Christ. It is better for us then, to live authentically as Christ’s followers. But how do we do that?

Firstly, Paul exhorts us to have an honest evaluation of ourselves, and not to think too highly of ourselves: “Don’t think you are better than you really are. Be honest in your evaluation of yourselves, measuring yourselves by the faith God has given us.” (Romans 12:3, NLT)

When we truly grasp that our true identity is found in our relationship with God and in our growing maturity in Him, we can be comfortable in our own skin, secure in how God has created us, and not feel the need to compare ourselves with others.

Secondly, we are asked to redirect attention to the One that deserves it all with sincerity of heart: “Let the one who boasts boast in the Lord.” (1 Corinthians 1:31, NIV)

Our giftings, accomplishments, and even our weaknesses are opportunities for others to see the grace of God at work in our lives. Authentic living is living out our true self while being fully secure in His redeeming grace.

It is very tiring to be someone we are not. At some point in time, we could lose touch with our true identity, or lose our credibility altogether. But when we live authentically, we can find peace with ourselves and glorify our Creator God who has fearfully and wonderfully made us in His image (Psalm 139).

Grace and peace be yours in abundance,
Lam Kok Hiang
Leadership Mentor


Cru Community + Missions


We desire our Cru staff to grow deep in their relationship with God, and to widen their missional impact, both in Singapore and the nations. This is to prepare us for #GO, a missions thrust to send 200 teams, to 20 nations, in 25 months.

Community - Staff Conference: Deep and Wide

A couple of weeks back, we finally had our long-awaited staff conference from 14-17 June. Our last staff conference was back in 2018! Over 178 adults and children had a blessed time in Johor Bahru, Malaysia. We bonded over fun, fellowship, food, and of course praying together as we sought the Lord. We had Holly Sheldon, our Global VP for Student Ministries, to share with us on Losing Joy, Finding Joy and Giving Joy. The talks were spot on as Holly exhorted us to live and serve with joy in our hearts and in our service, even as we face challenges in life and ministry.

As the theme suggests, we desire our Cru staff to grow deep in their relationship with God, and to widen their missional impact, both in Singapore and the nations. This is to prepare us for #GO, a missions thrust to send 200 teams, to 20 nations beginning in December 2023.

Missions - #GetSet Trips

Immediately after the staff summit, 10 staff teams left for mission trips in several SEA countries from 18 -25 June, while one other team served alongside a Christian VWO in Singapore. The make-up of each team was intentionally composed to have members from various backgrounds, such as being intergenerational and multicultural, and across ministries and functions. That said, they all had the same missional heart to bless the nations.

The teams served in various locations: from very rural areas without electricity and running water, to daily 2-hour drives to villages, to mountainous regions with limited domestic flights, to places with urban settings, and even through virtual platforms like Zoom.

We worked with local partners and churches to serve alongside their ministries and organisations. We organised English classes, played sports like frisbee and volleyball, conducted visitations, showed the JESUS film in their own language, and facilitated life-skills seminars for the various groups.

We were so inspired by all the stories of faith and courage, stepping out of our comfort zones, and God’s power at work. We desire for many more to also experience what we had experienced. Through the #GetSet trips, we have been renewed and refreshed in our vision for the harvest. We look forward to mobilising 200 teams to 20 nations in the coming 25 months! Come join us on this adventure to be a blessing to the nations!


亲爱的事工伙伴,

随着资讯科技及人工智能发展,如今要分辨真假新闻或产品变得愈加困难。我们总是被警告有关种种精心的骗局,让人误信虚假的人事物。

身为基督徒的我们,是否时而伪装自己呢?我们可能一时的心虚,抬高自己想立个好形象,或者一直在人前带着假面具来隐藏真实的自己。甚至真实的自己与外人所认识的自己之间混淆不清,既瞒过别人,连自己也忽悠了。

保罗提醒信徒: “如果有人本来没有甚么了不起,却自以为是了不起的,就是欺骗自己”(加拉太书6:3, 新译本,下同)。虚伪行为可以是微妙的,以至于我们不当一回事。我们有可能:

  • 夸大自己的职务或头衔
  • 稍稍美化自己的成效
  • 过度承诺他人,过于能力所及
  • 粉饰太平,即便处境不妙
  • 在教会积极服事,在家对人冷漠
  • 对违背基督教价值观的事,选择默不作声或参与其中
  • 自以为公义圣洁,胜过其他人(路加福音6:41)

上述行为纵然能使一些人佩服我们,却不能荣耀神,甚至会绊倒主内弟兄姊妹。因此,我们这些跟随基督的人活得坦荡是好的。但是我们应该怎样才能真实无伪呢?

首先,保罗劝勉基督徒诚实审视自己,不卑不亢:“我凭着所赐给我的恩典,对你们各人说,不可自视太高,高于所当看的,反而应该照着神分给各人信心的大小,看得适中”(罗马书12:3)。

我们真实的身份只有在与神的关系中,以及在神里面成长成熟的过程中找到。了解到这点,我们就能很自在的做回自己,并能接纳神所创造的自己,也就不需要与其他人比较了。

其次,我们也常被教导真诚地将荣耀归给那配得一切的神。“如经上所记:‘夸口的,当指着主夸口’”(哥林多前书1:31,和合本)。

我们的恩赐、成就甚至软弱都是要让人见证神的恩典在我们的生命中工作。诚实无伪的生活就是安于神救赎恩典中,并坦然无惧活出真实的自己。

虚假的人生举步慎微。我们随时忘了初衷,亦或棋差一着、满盘皆输。但是我们若诚实无伪地生活,就得以平静面对自己,又称谢我们的造物主,因为我们受造奇妙可畏(诗篇139)。

愿神多多赐您恩惠与平安,
蓝国贤
会务导师



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