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From Despair to Delight

Waiting on the LORD

May 12, 2025

For many of us, living in this tech-speed world can make waiting very hard. We have gotten used to certainty and control, as well as immediate results and answers at the click of a button. Yet, waiting often means stepping into the unknown, which stirs up anxiety in our hearts. In addition, the need to exercise control over our inclination to act on impulse adds to the frustration and despair.

In Psalm 40:1-3 (NLT), David writes:

“I waited patiently for the LORD to help me, and he turned to me and heard my cry. He lifted me out of the pit of despair, out of the mud and the mire. He set my feet on solid ground and steadied me as I walked along. He has given me a new song to sing, a hymn of praise to our God. Many will see what he has done and be amazed. They will put their trust in the LORD.”

 

David found himself in a despondent situation, crying out to the LORD for help amid his despair. We, too, will encounter times of waiting—whether due to a loved one's health struggles, wayward children drifting away from the LORD, strained relationships, or other challenges. Like David, we yearn for God's answers and deliverance.

In Hebrew, the word for "wait" is qavah, which means to look for, hope, expect, or bind together like a cord. This conveys a sense of trustful anticipation, not passive idleness. Waiting on the LORD means:

  • Trusting in God's perfect timing rather than on our own plans
  • Believing in His promises even when circumstances seem discouraging
  • Relying on His strength rather than on our own limited efforts
  • Seeking His guidance rather than acting in haste

As David waited with patient expectation, God responded. God heard his prayer, turned to him, lifted him from the muddy pit, set his feet on a rock (a firm place  vs. sinking feeling), and gave him a new song of praise to God. David's response became a testimony that inspires others to put their trust in the LORD (v.3). Likewise, when we respond with patient waiting, we can be an encouragement to those around us.

 

Waiting on the LORD is an act of faith and trust. It may not be easy, but it always leads to renewed strength, divine blessings, and a deeper intimacy with God. How can we wait well?

  • Worship God while we wait: focus on God rather than on your problems or yourself
  • Acknowledge God’s sovereignty: trust that His plan is better than yours.
  • Invest time and energy in prayer:  turn your worries into prayers.
  • Trust in God’s goodness: believe that God knows, sees, and cares.

As we wait on the LORD, we will discover that waiting is not wasted time; it is a sacred space where God works deeply within us—moving from despair to delight in God's faithfulness.

 

Grace and Peace,

Lam Kok Hiang
Leadership Mentor

对于许多生活在科技及高速世界里的人们来说,等候相对地变得难熬。我们都习惯了凡事有序和可控,仿佛按颗按钮即刻有解答。然而,等待通常需要我们踏入那未知,令人焦虑。我们还得管理情绪以免一时冲动而后悔莫及。

大卫著的诗篇写道:

“我曾切切等候耶和华;祂转向我,听了我的呼求。祂把我从荒芜的坑里,从泥沼中拉上来;祂使我的脚站在盘石上,又使我的脚步稳定。祂使我口唱新歌,赞美我们的 神;许多人看见了,就必惧怕,并且要倚靠耶和华”(诗篇40:1-3;新译本)。

 

大卫回想自己曾陷入了沮丧的境地,在绝望中向主呼求帮助。我们何尝不是这样呢?有人因至亲生病、有人因孩子任性逐渐远离 神,或者感情纠葛等等问题。我们如同大卫迫切地呼求 神的答复和拯救。

经文里的“等候”一词在希伯来原文里作“qavah”,引申为“寻找、希望、期待,或(绳索)绑紧”的意思。“等候”在这里就显出一丝坚韧意志,而非消极被动。等候耶和华的意思是:

  • 信靠 神纯全的安排胜过依赖自己的计划。
  • 以 神的应许为凭据胜过依赖动荡时势的解读。
  • 依靠 神的大能胜过依赖有限的人为努力。
  • 寻求 神的引导胜过行事急躁。

大卫正安静等候 神的当儿, 神回应了。 神垂听了他的祷告,转向他,从泥沼里把他拉出来,使他站在磐石上(类比稳妥和下陷的处境),又赐他新歌赞美 神。大卫的反应使其他人看见了也信靠 神(第3节)。同样地,我们若安静等候 神、回应祂的拯救,就在周遭人们眼中成为活生生的见证。

 

等候耶和华是信心的操练,这并不容易,却往往使那等候 神的人重新得力、经历 神的恩赐与同在。我们等候 神的时候该做什么呢?

  • 敬拜 神:当从困难及自身转眼仰望 神。
  • 相信 神掌权:信靠祂的计划超乎人的计划。
  • 不住祷告:把您的忧患化为祷告。
  • 相信 神的美善: 神知道、看见,并且祂眷顾。

我们若等候 神就会发现:等候 神的时间并非毫无意义,而是 神在人里头工作的神圣契机—使人脱离绝望,因 神的信实欢欣。

 

愿您经历 神的恩典平安,

蓝国贤
会务导师

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