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Soul Anchors

The Gaps in our Lives

October 2, 2023

Dear Ministry Partner,

“Don’t think you are better than you really are. Be honest in your evaluation of yourselves, measuring yourselves by the faith God has given us.” – Romans 12:3, NLT

What an apt reminder for us not to hold an exalted view of ourselves but to have a realistic view of who we are and how God sees us. 

In this world of self-inflated egos and self-serving motives, many of us are inclined to think of ourselves as better than who we really are. However, in a moment of honesty, we may see the gaps in our lives, i.e., what we practice versus what we preach. 

Let me suggest several gaps we need to pay attention to:

  • Public-Private Gap. Sometimes our public persona may differ from our private lives. Through our interactions with people in the course of our work or ministry, we build a public image or reputation that gives us identity and significance. As we grow in our sanctification journey, we must ensure that our private lives are not incongruent with our public lives. When there is a public-private gap, we risk being seen as a hypocrite and stumble others. It is also tiring to be someone we are not. “May integrity and honesty protect me, for I put my hope in you.” – Psalm 25:21, NLT
  • Knowledge-Application Gap. While biblical knowledge is important for our understanding, it is the application of God’s Word that result in transformation of lives. As the apostle James reminds us: “Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says” (James 1:22, NIV). We must translate what we know into action and live out the values and conviction of God’s word. Our spiritual growth will be stunted by a knowledge-application gap. It is thus important for this gap to be closed in order that we may grow in our heart-knowledge and not just head knowledge. “But anyone who hears my teaching and doesn’t obey it is foolish, like a person who builds a house on sand.” – Matthew 7:26, NLT
  • Worship-Idolatry Gap. This gap is evident when we profess our adoration in exuberant worship of God on Sunday, and then embrace and pursue other idols like wealth, power and fame on other days in the week. The feel-good Sunday services only serve to tickle our ears with no real understanding of who God is and what He expects of us. We pay lip service in our commitments to God, and choose a life of convenience instead of sacrifice. This growing gap will inevitably lead to an erosion of our relationship with God. “Quit your worship charades. I can’t stand your trivial religious games…” – Isaiah 1:13a, MSG

God looks beyond our external appearance and sees our hearts and motivations (1 Samuel 16:7). Saul had all the external qualities, but the gaps in his life led to his downfall. Let us not walk in his footsteps. Instead, let us make every effort to close the gaps in our lives, so that we can stand blameless before Him and hear Him say to us, “Well done, good and faithful servant” (Matthew 25:21a).

Blessings,
Lam Kok Hiang
Leadership Mentor


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见证和现实的差距

亲爱的事工伙伴,

“我凭着所赐给我的恩典,对你们各人说,不可自视太高,高于所当看的,反而应该照着神分给各人信心的大小,看得适中”(罗马书12:3, 新译本,下同)。

这对我们来说是多么恰当的提醒,不要自视过高,反该实际地了解自己是谁以及 神如何看待我们。

我们处于推崇标榜个性、实现自我的社会,不少人趋向自我感觉良好。但是,若扪心自问,我们可能察觉理念和生活间的差距,譬如我们如何教导人、行出来又如何。

让我提出几项我们需要关注的偏差:

  • 表里的偏差:我们的公开形象与私下言行或许不一致。通过职场或事工与他人交流,我们逐渐设立个人外在的形象及名声,这些给予我们身份和意义。随着灵命成长更新,我们必须确保私人生活跟表面形象不脱节。当两者间出现偏差,我们可以被视为伪善以致绊倒他人。扮演不属于自己的角色也令人心累。圣经说:“愿纯全和正直保护我,因为我等候祢”(诗篇25:21)。
  • 知行的偏差:熟悉圣经固然重要,能使人有智慧。唯独遵行 神的道能使人生命转变。使徒雅各叮嘱基督徒说:“你们应该作行道的人,不要单作听道的人,自己欺骗自己”(雅各书1:22)。我们必须遵循 神的诫命,信靠 神的话语,活出其中真意。若非如此,我们或许只是停在理解程度,灵命无法成长。所以跟随基督的人得增长知识,伴以言行显出(基督)长成的身量。圣经说:“凡听见我这些话却不遵行的,就像愚蠢的人,把自己的房子盖在沙土上”(马太福音7:26)。
  • 分辨偶像:我们若礼拜天敬虔崇拜 神,其余六天热衷于追求财富、权势及名誉地位等偶像,就形成价值观偏差。主日崇拜沦为感觉不赖的过眼云烟,不能使人认识 神和祂的旨意。我们嘴上顺从神,信仰得过且过。如此态度至终使人与 神关系冷淡,渐行渐远。圣经说:“不要再带没有意义的供物来了,烧献祭物的香气也是我厌恶的…”(以赛亚书1:13a)。

神看人过于人的外表,是看我们内心和动机(参阅撒母耳记上16:7)。扫罗曾经如鹤立鸡群胜过当时以色列众人,可惜王逐渐偏离 神以致消亡。让我们引以为诫。相反地,愿我们努力活出表里如一的见证,至终得以坦然无惧站在审判宝座前,听见主呼唤我们:“好,你这又善良又忠心的仆人”(参阅马太福音25:21)!

愿神赐福于您,
蓝国贤
会务导师



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